http://123543147.qzone.qq.com Sat, 28 Nov 2009 16:06:26 GMT Qzone zh-cn Copyright (C), 2005-2008, Tencent Tech. Co., Ltd. Sat, 28 Nov 2009 07:34:51 GMT http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1259393691


I feel proud to act as the chief witness at the wedding ceremeny of W and M
The following is part of my wedding speech. (I have already finished preparing it in July.)

At the special moment when the wedding hall is ablaze with lights and full of distinguished guests, I feel proud and excited as the chief witness here for the marriage of W and M.
They came to know each other in middle school and fell in love with each other when they were in college. They come all the way in company since then, enjoying sweetness mixed with bitterness.
They are now standing here in the wedding hall, happily and proudly, ready for starting a wonderful new life in the future.
At this moment, as one of the witnesses here, I would like to sincerely express my best wishes to you, W and M, for a happy marriage. May you two always be in love.
Do remember, in the days to come, please
Treasure any precious moment with love between each other
Get over bravely the hardships and troubles in life
Show filial respect and affection to both parents, and
Take good care of your own family.




昨天很荣幸的担当了W和M的婚礼的证婚人。
早在7月份我就把征婚词写好了，以下是其中的部分，哈哈

今天是W先生和M小姐喜结良缘的日子，在这华灯初上，宾客满堂的时刻，作为证婚人，我感到格外激动和荣幸。

他们在中学时代相识，在大学时代相爱，他们相伴走来，这一路充满苦辣甜酸。

今时今日，他们幸福而骄傲地步入这神圣的婚姻殿堂，将为抒写美好的未来扬帆起航。此时此刻，请让我怀以一颗虔诚的心，与在座的所有人共同见证这对新人的美满姻缘！

W and M，我真诚祝福你们，祝福你们新婚快乐，白头偕老。

记住：在接下来的每一天里，
请用幽深的明眸去阅读彼此间相爱的瞬间，
请用辟浪的英姿去搏击人生路接连的考验。
孝敬双方的父母
热爱自己的家庭



]]> http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1259393691#comment 134218240 Sat, 28 Nov 2009 07:34:51 GMT http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1259393691 http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1254500077


深蓝的夜空
浩无边际的苍穹
远处高山巍耸
天边云影朦胧
浅浅薄纱随风起而撩动
巨幅夜幕宛如嫁衣为谁而容
你来之悠悠 去之匆匆
婀娜飘逸的身姿难掩高处不胜寒的苦痛
千里之外的广寒宫中
锦衣玉带红花百果无穷
绚烂的孤寂在你心头烙印重重
十五的轻风
能否拂去你紧锁千年的愁容
吹开内心里张扬已久的梦













]]> http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1254500077#comment 142606848 Fri, 02 Oct 2009 16:14:37 GMT http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1254500077 http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1252232157




My sister went to college in Anhui, my brother to France, so did I come back to school again. There existed diametrically quietness in my grandmother’s house that used to be full of joyful voice and laughter in the past days. It seemed a parting scene for people to follow their separate ways. By the time we took leave of our grandmother last night, I could deeply read her hollow mind. Grandmother occupied herself during the whole summer in making delicious food for us children. Sick as she was, she never refused to bother herself to buy the food to our taste through sunshine and rain. It can be imagined that our grandmother must be physically tired and mentally exhausted throughout the whole summer. Nevertheless, she would undoubtedly feel much gratified as long as she breathed in the delightful air in the house.
That manifests the nature of old people. They don’t complain or feel regret for anything they did heart and soul for their children. My grandmother, who is now in her seventies, said to my brother last night, “Do come back home so long as you have any free time next summer, or there is going to be less and less chance for us to get reunited.” These words shocked my heart a bit. The olds care nothing about being rich and wealthy, nor do they ask their children to do anything for them in return. Instead, they prefer to see their children live peacefully and enjoy a harmonious family atmosphere. What a simple wish it is which has made my mind weighted a lot…





表妹北上安徽上大学了，表弟西去法国了，我也回学校了，原本每天热闹无比的外婆家顿时安静了很多，真有今朝一日，各奔东西的感觉。昨晚临行告别的时候，我深深感觉到外婆内心的空落。一个暑假以来，外婆虽然忙忙碌碌，还生了一场病，但是每天会给我们做好吃的，就算是顶着烈日，冒着大雨，也会出去买我们喜欢的食物。可以想象，外婆忙里忙外了一个夏天，身心俱疲，但是只要家里充满着我们热闹的声音，她老人家就会格外的满足。
老人就是这样的，甘心付出一切，为了孩子。再苦再累，无怨无悔。外婆也已经70多了，昨晚跟我表弟说，“来年如果有空，暑假也一定要回来啊，接下来，见一次少一次了。”话音刚落，我心中觉得很不是滋味。老人不贪图什么荣华富贵，不祈求儿女报答自己，她最希望看到的就是自己的儿女平安无事，家庭幸福。多么朴素又简单的愿望，我心中沉甸甸的。。。
]]> http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1252232157#comment 134218240 Sun, 06 Sep 2009 10:15:57 GMT http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1252232157 http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1250675079




A pure and unspotted place here on earth, it has yet been in a state of dereliction since January this year. Withered flowers and broken branches assume an unbearably desolate scene. A stream of water that stopped running leaves no sign of having ever been flowing vigorously in bygone days, which makes any person sigh with regret. As my thought flashed back, the place of my own here was not so beautiful as the blooming garden depicted in the poem of “The garden cannot shut up the full blooming spring, an apricot stretches out a branch o’er the wall.”, but it was possessed of a touch of peace and beauty described with sentences of “The forest seems more quiet with the chirping of cicadas and the mountain looks more peaceful with the singing of birds. ” Although it was less grand and powerful than the great waterfall as the poem wrote “The torrent dashes down three thousand feet from the high, as if the silver river falls from azure sky”, it was tinged with briskness and vividness like the sentences of “The moonlight brightened the pine trees and the lucid spring water flew over the rocks” . The time went by as flowing water. It passed stealthily through the fingertips, leaving its footprints in the hair and cutting sharply man’s heart. The day which has passed will never return again. When I look back, I have found nothing to linger on too much. I must keeping running and pursuing by the time it is autumn now. Out of sheer boredom I have written down the words here. By the way, let me do something to clean my q-zone.





世间此地，净土一方，自元月之始，悄无声息已逾半载。花残枝折，水断无痕，满目疮痍，令人叹息。遥想他日此时此地，虽无“春色满园关不住，一只红杏出墙来”之繁花似锦，恰有几分“蝉噪林逾静，鸟鸣山更幽”之深幽静美，虽无“飞流直下三千尺，疑似银河落九天”之波澜壮阔，亦有几分“明月松间照，清泉石上流”之轻快传神。岁月如流，其足潜于指尖，其影藏于发鬓，其锐刻骨铭心。忆往昔，然去之不复，心无挂碍，无挂碍故。淡淡秋气渐起之时，逐日追星，马不停蹄。聊以为记，以此除草开荒。




]]> http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1250675079#comment 142606848 Wed, 19 Aug 2009 09:44:39 GMT http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1250675079 http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1232048249
There exist such animals as lions, tigers and leopards in the world. Animals like those are given by people an honorable name called “BEAST”. Thanks to my not-so-poor memory, I still clearly remember that I learnt this character in my Chinese class when I was in the third grade in primary school. Nevertheless, I have no special liking for it partly because the make-up of the character fails to catch my fancy and partly because one part of the character turns my stomach each time I saw it. (kou, which means the mouth, as a part of this character) I feel a bit queer how this word pops up frequently in my mind in recent days. I have attributed it to my mind's delirium and been most deeply impressed by its brutish and savage characteristics. The creation of the brutes by Nature, from my perspective, is meant to bring to the world something manly or some qualities in this type.
Birds and beasts themselves in the nature undoubtedly display a kind of powerful beauty to some extent. Yet this uncovers a sense of horror due to its “brutishness”. On earth there are lives of creatures less mentally-civilized which have overawed mankind all the more. I found my self lost in meditation and faltered in the phrase “being overawed at the sight” with the suspicious thought that whether it was so felicitously-used here that it overstates the mental status of such creatures. After all mankind would not be afraid of beasts, let alone of the creatures with less-civilized mentality? I have tried a lot for the purpose of getting a suitable word to fix it but failed at last. Perhaps my mind is non-allergic to it and is above it.
At the moment, I rose suddenly to my feet to have a cup of water, for I felt choked and couldn’t bear any longer.







世界上存在着诸如狮子，老虎，豹子等等之类的动物，人们美其名曰为兽。“兽”字，大概我的记性还比较好，是我在小学3年级的语文课本上习得的。不过对这个字，我一直没有什么好感。因为首先这个字本生的结构就很不好看，再次下面的“口”字尤其让人感到恶心。奇怪这几天我的大脑中经常会冒出这个字来，大概是脑子进水了的缘故吧。“凶猛”，“野蛮”这两点是我感受最深的。试想，造物主打造出这些猛兽，是想给这个世界带来一点雄性，或者野性的魅力吧。
自然界中，飞禽走兽在某种程度上确实会体现一种到力量和美感，却也难免让人嗅到某种“强悍”背后的可怕。尤其是世界上“竟然”会存在一些禽兽不如的“生物”，那就更加让人望而生畏了。写到这里，我陷入了沉思，如果这里用“望而生畏”是不是有点拔高此类生物的精神地位，毕竟一个正常人怎会畏惧兽类，况且还是禽兽不如的生物？究竟该用什么词来匹配呢？我绞尽脑汁，却还是无动于衷，大概我的大脑对此短路，表现出一种"不屑"吧！
我突然忍不住爬起来喝了口水，因为我的舌头是在憋得难受。






. ]]> http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1232048249#comment 134218240 Thu, 15 Jan 2009 19:37:29 GMT http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1232048249 http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1229194329


Having been away from my q-zone space for more than two months, I finally come back. The whole November was totally overfull of trifling things. Busy as I was, I came to obtain the right life I long urgently for. Yeah, that was what a real man should be like, a man himself filled with courage and attention in work, flexibility and concentration in social affairs but not solemnity and disguise at leisure moment. Far from being satisfactory, I never stop my step towards it.

I felt almost half of my last several school days in my life had passed the moment that I finished the so-called mid-term test. I was quite clear of my performance in the test, bad, terribly bad! It seemed, however, I cared more about in what way I could rid my mind completely of the books and papers concerned than what result it would be. It was a surprising change for me because for quite a long time I got used to fussing about any slight uncertain details with my fellow examinees afterwards. I knew that it was ridiculous. It might the last academically formal exam in my life time, boring and meaningless. Frankly speaking, I hate to be examined for sheer examination and I hate to be seated reviewing what palls on my taste. Rather, I prefer writing short lines with no limit to the subject and noting down all the signs and icons to my interest. Anyway, the fucking tedious exam is gone and over.







在离开q-zone近两个月后，我又回归了。整个11月份，整个人都忙碌于种种琐事。尽管忙忙碌碌，我却无形之中收获了那种我所渴望的生活。的确，男子汉就该是这样子的。工作中一往无前，专心致志；社交中灵活圆润，全心投入；但在闲暇时光却不会让人感到呆板严肃，矫揉造作。尽管与之差距明显，我却从未停滞不前。

在我完成所谓的中期考核的那一刻，我隐隐的感觉到生命中最后一段校园时光已经过去一半了。对于考试，我很清楚，不甚理想。不过考完后，我更在意的是如何把书本和笔记忘得一干二净，而不再关注考试的结果如何。对我而言，这简直是一个出人意料的变化，因为以往我总喜欢考后与同伴一起，揪着那些不确定的细节不放。那简直是很可笑的行为，对于这点我很清楚。或许这次考试是我人生中最后一次学术考试了，无聊乏味且意义不大。坦白的说，我不喜欢为了考试而去考试，也不喜欢安坐着复习那些让我乏味的东西。相反，我更喜欢自由发挥，写点诗歌，也喜欢记录一些让我感兴趣的图标和符号。不管怎样，枯燥乏味的考试已经结束了。
]]> http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1229194329#comment 134218240 Sat, 13 Dec 2008 18:52:09 GMT http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1229194329 http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1223658471




I do not clearly remember when the fucking insomnia troubles me, maybe at the age of ten or even a bit earlier, yet I am sure that it has already lasted for quite a long time. I can deeply feel how mentally painful it is the moment I can not fall asleep but to toss about in the bed. My parents have tried every conceived means in the hope of rooting out my nightmare. I was dosed with traditional Chinese formulas as well as western medicines which were said to effectively contribute to relief of insomnia, yet they were in vain. I was brought to the psychologist’s a couple of times, yet it still fails to solve my problem. At the very beginning, I didn’t care too much about my sleeplessness especially when I was in high school. Instead, I would often choose to study each time I found it hard for me to sleep and this really did me a big favor to make up the lost time in the day time. However, sleeplessness is nothing but a nightmare since then. More frequently it came to me day after day and finally I was victimized. I feel a great envy at those who get into his dreamland soon after going to bed. Now, I have already taken my insomnia for granted and I would be gratified if I can enjoy my sleep-time for six hours a day. I am not an insatiable one, any more extra seconds for me in bed are the gift the heaven endows me.





我已记不清曾几何时我开始受困于失眠，或许是五岁那时，或许更早。不过我可以肯定这个现象已经持续好长一段时间了。我可以深深的感受到难以入眠时在床上辗转反侧时的痛苦。父母为了解除我的病痛，用尽了各种办法。我吃过不少中西药，都是美其名曰有助于治疗失眠的良药，但无济于事。我也曾看过几次心理医生，但也未能让我摆脱失眠之苦。起先，我并不在意睡不着。特别是在高中阶段，每当难以入睡的时候，我总会选择爬起来学习，这简直弥补了我白天耽误掉的宝贵时间。然而，失眠也是从那时起开始成为我的噩梦。日复一日，失眠越发频繁，最终我无法摆脱失眠的枷锁。我很羡慕那些头一靠枕头就安然入眠的人。如今，我早已对失眠习以为常，要是每天我能睡足6个小时，我已经谢天谢地了。我并非贪得无厌之人，能在床上多呆一秒，我都会觉得是上苍对我的恩赐 ]]> http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1223658471#comment 512 Fri, 10 Oct 2008 17:07:51 GMT http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1223658471 http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1222429931



I spent my 25th birthday last night.
In fact, my birthday should be on September 29th according to the Gregorian calendar whereas on August 23 rd with regard to the lunar calendar. As far as I can see, my birthday celebrated yesterday is quite suitable since it was the day in between. Seldom do I make mention of my birthday since my 18th birthday was celebrated, and I often forget the exact day of my birthday from then on. It is lucky for me to have a good friend who was born on the same day as I. Each time my birthday is coming up, she is used to sending her best wishes to me “Happy birthday”. At this moment, I would always smile a graceful smile and replied “The same to you”.
My roommate as well as those who live next door are always disposed to hold a birthday party for me since last year when I began my postgraduate period of study. The birthday, as a matter of fact, doesn’t have greater attraction to me any longer today than when I was little. What’s more, the birthday seems to remind me of my advancement in age. However, I still prefer to enjoy an agreeable and friendly-based atmosphere with a lot of people gathering on this occasion. During a man’s life time, this kind of moment of gathering is very transitory and must be cherished well.





昨晚度过了自己25周岁的生日。
其实如果照阳历来算，我的生日是9月29，而农历生日则是八月二十三。这么看来，昨天是一个折中的日子，比较合理。其实自从过完自己的十八周岁以后，我便不再提及自己的生日，反而常常忘记自己的生日。好在我有个同年同月同日生的好友，因此每当生日的那天，她总会发来祝福的短信：“生日快乐”。每当这时，我总会欣然一笑，回一个过去：“同乐同乐”。
自去年读研开始，我的室友们（包括对门的），总很乐意为我过生日。其实对于生日，我早已不像孩童时期那么期盼，甚至每一次生日的来临，总让人感到自己又衰老的一点。不过，我还是很喜欢大家能借此机会坐到一起，共同去享受那一种情意融融的感觉。这样很好，也很惬意。其实人的一生，像这样的时光是很短暂的，所以要好好珍惜。

]]> http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1222429931#comment 512 Fri, 26 Sep 2008 11:52:11 GMT http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1222429931 http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1220346775

It is now September.
Autumn as it has already been, the weather here in September is as hot and windless as it is shiny and clear. I am still used to sleeping on bamboo mat rather than on bed-cushion. I felt the whole body hot as I went to bed. It was not until in the early morning that I came to feel a blast of coolness from top to toe.
There is less sweltering hotness in middle summer in September; instead, more quietness of early autumn. It is once again the commencement of a new semester and a new round for hard work and life. On the way to the canteen, one of my friends said that there were as many belles that drew others’ attention as usual. I replied that those beautiful girls at this moment were no longer that they were, and their prettiness might vanish into the void days later.
The time is a sharp sword which pricks people’s faces and leaves the pain in their hearts.
The new semester begins, with less time in class and more free time at your disposal. Classrooms and the library counts for little in daily life; instead, social affairs and practices for future career become the hot topic. I might be the one who is not quick at adaptation from one kind of life tempo to another. I feel suddenly ill at ease in face of change.
The time elapses rapidly, which leaves no room for one’s carelessness or hesitation. All the people are treated equal in front of an opportunity and only those who are good at seizing it can achieve a lot beyond expectations.







进入九月。
虽然节气上早已入秋，但只要是大晴天，这里的九月依然艳阳高照，云淡风轻。我还不习惯把竹席换了，毕竟睡下去的时候，整个人还是感觉热的，只是在早晨五六点钟醒来的时候，才会察觉到那丝丝凉意，席卷全身。
九月，少了盛夏的酷热，多了初秋的宁静。又是一次崭新的开学，又是一个轮回的开始。去食堂的路上，朋友说，美女依然很多，依然招人眼球。我说，此刻的美女已经不是彼刻的美女，美女也在变化，或许到了明天，原本迷人的风姿却荡然无存。
时间是一把利剑，划过人的脸孔，疼在人的心里。
开学了，上课的时间少了，自主的时间多了。教室、图书馆渐渐在生命中失去了它原有的重心，社会、实习慢慢占据了人们话题的焦点。大概我属于那种适应能力比较差的人，角色的突然转变，让我觉得好不自在。
时间会过的很快，或许由不得自己马虎和犹豫。机会对于任何人都是公平的，只有善于把握的人才会有意想不到的收获。










]]> http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1220346775#comment 512 Tue, 02 Sep 2008 09:12:55 GMT http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1220346775 http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1218812905

夜深，难眠，我选择阅读夜色---代题记

夜色如水如流
若不是飘起星雨
怎会溅起我思绪的理由
同样是一个雨过的午后
我翻读着尘封已久的日记 情意悠悠
是什么让我的心跳无止无休
你可知道 字里行间曾写下我对梦的追求


夜色如梦如幻
若不是无尽的星河
怎会流过我梦境的边缘
幸好有了夜莺的相伴
我得以踏上寻梦之旅 前路漫漫
是什么让我的脚步渐行渐远
你可知道 五颜六色早已在我脚下铺开画卷


夜色如诗如歌
若不是音符装满星空
怎会点燃我心头的火热
头一次痴迷于你多彩的色泽
我愿做一名读者 唯独乐乐
是什么让我的视线不离不舍
你可知道 你的绚丽注定在我的记忆中铭刻






]]> http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1218812905#comment 513 Fri, 15 Aug 2008 15:08:25 GMT http://123543147.qzone.qq.com/blog/1218812905