http://251980101.qzone.qq.com Fri, 27 Nov 2009 11:36:38 GMT Qzone zh-cn Copyright (C), 2005-2008, Tencent Tech. Co., Ltd. Wed, 25 Nov 2009 01:32:44 GMT http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1259112764 一个眼比较好的，看到一个貌似德克士的地方，我们也不确定是不是，就满怀希望的走过去，一看，意外惊喜哦！竟然有德克士，我兴冲冲的进去，顺手就点了一个全虾堡，特别声明：我是不喜欢吃这些东西的，但是此刻，我就是想吃。
等我拿到手，三下五去二就吃完了。把我们的美女领导吓的一愣一愣的，直呼我真可爱！我才不管呢，先吃好了再说！实在没有想到，我们住的地方是如此偏僻哈，吃的竟那么少！
一顿饱饭之后，偶摸了摸肚皮，啊，真舒服！哈哈，晚上回去继续学习PS了，辛苦哦！我相信我一定会学会的，等着我哈！今天老天爷开眼，太阳火辣辣的！我就穿上了薄薄的线衣、西装和丝袜，唯一不足的是我穿了个高帮靴子！真过瘾哦！看来南方还是适合过冬的！ ]]> http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1259112764#comment 142606848 Wed, 25 Nov 2009 01:32:44 GMT http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1259112764 http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258895323 今天去逛街，坐了很久很久，一路上没有看到很如意的地方。仅仅看到了两个国美，据说是市中心，竟然有两个KFC和麦当劳，以及几个百货公司。东方百货看起来还是蛮不错的，别的一般。想找个像家乐福或者京客隆那样的地方采购点东西都很难的哦。
经过了跋涉，终于看到一个好又多，去里面逛了一圈，发现里面的东西种类很少，而且比北京贵。随便采购了点东西，心里很郁闷，也很失望。更雷人的事情还没说呢，终于找到了东方百货，当我们五人兴冲冲的走到大门口时，工作人员告诉我们，今儿是VIP日，只有金卡，钻石卡用户可以进入，天呢，什么世道嘛！简直是歧视人嘛！
都说南方人爱喝汤，可大街上很少有饭店有汤，并且那些饭店真的很次呀！没有什么好吃的，晚上一起去吃饭，走了一条街，都是大排档，不是什么串，就是麻辣烫，跟我们平时吃的做法还不一样，一点味道都没有，苦了我们一群人。
今儿晚上吃了串串，跟没吃饭一样，好想吃火锅哦，想吃麻辣诱惑，想吃北京的东西，看来我又要瘦几斤了。明儿就要去公司了，不说了，过两天继续哈！ ]]> http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258895323#comment 142606848 Sun, 22 Nov 2009 13:08:43 GMT http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258895323 http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258682607 　　在路边拦车，五分钟过去了，没有一趟空车，还是决定坐别的公交车。好不容易过来一趟车，我就上去了，后来发现我没有办法换车，坐了三站，我看到627了，赶紧下来，谁知道刚下车，627呼啸而过，我气得直跺脚，NND!真的好郁闷，这会我又想打车了，这个地方好打车，可是还是好半天没车，我看到一个车子能到木樨园桥，我就坐上了。到了木樨园桥，我步行了五分钟到了桥东，那个冷，实在不想走!在那等啊等，终于来了一趟特8，我竟然又没挤上去，我那会真觉得自己真没用。接着来了一趟特8快，我还在想好人还是有好报的嘛，来了一趟快车。撒腿冲上去，竟然还有座位，我就心安理得的坐下了，看看表已经8：35了，应该很快就到公司了，不会迟到的。眯着眼，休息了一下。
　　大概又过了几站，车子还是蛮顺利的，也不是很堵，很庆幸呢。快到公司了，司机发出声音了：“各位乘客，实在很抱歉，本车出现故障，请各位下车换乘别的车吧!”奶奶的，此刻已经8：48了，虽然离我公司还有一站，可这站很长啊，况且我下了车还要走一段呢。这时，又过来了一趟，费了九牛二虎之力终于上去了。到了站，我撒腿就跑，要不是同事的门禁卡在我这，我才不会这么卖命的跑。
　　平时需要6分钟的路程，我一溜烟就跑到了，到了公司楼下，发现已经8：58了，我直接爬楼，没有坐电梯，等我刷卡的时候正好9：00，真叫一个赶啊!虽然公司没有说迟到的问题，但又没有规定上班就可以迟到啊!终于可以喘口气了，站在门口缓了一会，算是没白跑啊!
　　今儿的早上，真是折腾啊!郁闷ING!此刻，我在想，我一定要长的壮壮的，超越80斤，好的身材算什么，只是好看，不能助我挤车！要不然连车都没法坐，赶紧赚钱，自己买车吧!这个星期，已经很郁闷了。周一差点被挤死了，那车无法形容啊!好好工作，好好生活，好好吃饭，养的胖胖的，壮壮的，继续挤车去!A ZA! ]]> http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258682607#comment 142606848 Fri, 20 Nov 2009 02:03:27 GMT http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258682607 http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258444906 　　感动之一，当小贝亲眼看到海藻与宋思明时，处于崩溃边缘的小贝无法面对这眼前的一切，消失于大雨中时，宋思明强忍于心中的痛楚，陪伴着海藻找小贝。之所以说宋思明痛楚，是从他的眼神中，看到了那一瞬间的无耐。一个男人看着自己心爱的女人为其他男人流泪，彷徨，无助时，那种心情可想而知。但他却依然毅然决然的陪伴在海藻身边。
　　感动之二，当海藻告诉宋思明有了他的孩子时，他并没有像其他的婚外情男人一样，推卸责任，甚至于让海藻打掉孩子。而是让海藻将他们的结晶带来这个世界。一个男人最幸福的事情，就是能让自己心爱的女人为他生个孩子。所以，他是真的爱她。
　　感动之三，宋思明深知自己时日不多，在他最后的时间里，他开始安排后事。当然，这个后事就是海藻。他留给她一部分钱，希望通过这笔钱，能让在未来没有他的日子里，会让海藻生活的好些。
　　感动之四，宋思明死了。在这看似的结局中，宋思明的朋友出现了。他带来了宋思明的E-MAIL，“希望他的朋友能将海藻和他们的孩子带到美国，好好照顾。”在一个人生命垂危之际，他全然忘记了如何保全自己，而去安排在他生命中最重要的那个人的未来，这难道不是爱吗?
　　似乎我把宋思明说的太过于完美了。但他真的没有缺点，没有过错吗?当然有。他的缺点在于，他太过于贪婪，太过于清高。他利用手中的职权，拿了本应该不属于他的东西。当然也包括海藻。他的过错在于，他始终认为他应该对海藻负责，可他却忽略了这个陪伴了他十几年的枕边人，忘记了他已经有了一个家庭，一个婚姻。他的责任不仅仅是对海藻。
　　在《蜗居》这部电视剧中，最让我觉得贴近生活的，就是小贝与海藻之间的爱情。他们并没有其像其它电视剧中演的那样，分手以后，经历众多，仍旧觉得忘记不了对方，然后重新在一起。而是清楚的知道，两个相爱的人一旦分手很难再回到从前，像小贝，不是没有和海藻再继续在一起，只是当再在一起时，越来越发现彼此当初的那份感觉已经付之东流，最后只能分手，各自重新开始。
　　在生活中，一个女人总会遇到一个宋思明，一个小贝。希望当面临这场抉择的时候。能够想清楚，清楚的知道自己究竟想要怎样的生活。也许有些生活故然平淡。可正所谓平平淡淡才是真…… ]]> http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258444906#comment 142606848 Tue, 17 Nov 2009 08:01:46 GMT http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258444906 http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258003795 　　这几天一直在看《孔雀》，说实在的，感觉非常伤感，是的，电视剧一开始就注定了感伤的结局，焦仲卿和刘兰芝这一对因琴声而相识的两个人，真正相识相知却几经周折，让人感叹命运造化弄人。焦母是一个跋扈、霸道的妇人，因为对儿媳不满，生生拆散了一对有情人，导致这场悲剧的开始。《孔雀》画面非常唯美，尤其是在表现刘兰芝和焦仲卿守候的那段戏时，更是将人物画面和风景画面结合的令人无法挑剔。刘兰芝，清丽、动人、脱俗，让人不仅感叹，这样的角色除了孙菲菲，还能有谁演驿?而孙菲菲将刘兰芝演驿的栩栩如生，这不正是入戏太深，演出了自己呢? ]]> http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258003795#comment 142606848 Thu, 12 Nov 2009 05:29:55 GMT http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258003795 http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257501669 　　她1979年的，来自满洲里，有着北方女孩的爽快和大气，有着狮子座的霸气和直爽。我们俩同一天生日，同时到公司。许多的话待会再写，我有幸没有被裁.... ]]> http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257501669#comment 142606848 Fri, 06 Nov 2009 10:01:09 GMT http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257501669 http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257320508 　　As we drove off from Columbia, I wanted to write a letter to you to tell you all that is on my mind.
　　First, I want to tell you how proud we are. Getting into Columbia is a real testament of what a great well-rounded student you are. Your academic, artistic, and social skills have truly blossomed in the last few years. Whether it is getting the highest grade in Calculus, completing your elegant fashion design, successfully selling your painted running shoes, or becoming one of the top orators in Model United Nations, you have become a talented and accomplished young woman. You should be as proud of yourself as we are.
　　I will always remember the first moment I held you in my arms. I felt a tingling sensation that directly touched my heart. It was an intoxicating feeling I will always have. It must be that “father-daughter connection” which will bind us for life. I will always remember singing you lullaby while I rocked you to sleep. When I put you down, it was always with both relief (she finally fell asleep!) and regret (wishing I could hold you longer). And I will always remember taking you to the playground, and watching you having so much fun. You were so cute and adorable, and that is why everybody loved you so.
　　You have been a great kid ever since you were born, always quiet, empathetic, attentive, and well-mannered. You were three when we built our house. I remember you quietly followed us every weekend for more than ten hours a day to get building supplies. You put up with that boring period without a fuss, happily ate hamburgers every meal in the car, sang with Barney until you fell asleep. When you went to Sunday Chinese school, you studied hard even though it was no fun for you. I cannot believe how lucky we are as parents to have a daughter like you.
　　You have been an excellent elder sister. Even though you two had your share of fights, the last few years you have become best friends. Your sister loves you so much, and she loves to make you laugh. She looks up to you, and sees you as her role model. As you saw when we departed, she misses you so much. And I know that you miss her just as much. There is nothing like family, and other than your parents, your sister is the one person who you can trust and confide in. She will be the one to take care of you, and the one you must take care of. There is nothing we wish more than that your sisterhood will continue to bond as you grow older, and that you will take care of each other throughout your lives. For the next four years, do have a short video chat with her every few days, and do email her when you have a chance.
　　College will be the most important years in your life. It is in college that you will truly discover what learning is about. You often question “what good is this course”. I encourage you to be inquisitive, but I also want to tell you : “education is what you have left after all that is taught is forgotten”. What I mean by that is the materials taught isn’t as important as you gaining the ability to learn a new subject, and the ability to analyze a new problem. That is really what learning in college is about – this will be the period where you go from teacher-taught to master-inspired, after which you must become self-learner. So do take each subject seriously, and even if what you learn isn’t critical for your life, the skills of learning will be something you cherish forever.
　　Do not fall into the trap of dogma. There is no single simple answer to any question. Remember during your high school debate class, I always asked you to take on the side that you don’t believe in? I did that for a reason — things rarely “black and white”, and there are always many ways to look at a problem. You will become a better problem solver if you recognized that. This is called “critical thinking”, and it is the most important thinking skill you need for your life. This also means you need to become tolerant and supportive of others. I will always remember when I went to my Ph.D. advisor and proposed a new thesis topic. He said “I don’t agree with you, but I’ll support you.” After the years, I have learned this isn’t just flexibility, it is encouragement of critical thinking, and an empowering style of leadership, and it has become a part of me. I hope it will become a part of you too.
　　Follow your passion in college. Take courses you think you will enjoy. Don’t be trapped in what others think or say. Steve Jobs says when you are in college, your passion will create many dots, and later in your life you will connect them. In his great speech given at Stanford commencement , he gave the great example where he took calligraphy, and a decade later, it became the basis of the beautiful Macintosh fonts, which later ignited desktop publishing, and brought wonderful tools like Microsoft Word to our lives. His expedition into calligraphy was a dot, and the Macintosh became the connecting line. So don’t worry too much about what job you will have, and don’t be too utilitarian, and if you like Japanese or Korean, go for it, even if your dad thinks “it’s not useful.”  Enjoy picking your dots, and be assured one day you will find your calling, and connect a beautiful curve through the dots.
　　Do your best in classes, but don’t let pressure get to you. Your mother and I have no expectations for your grades. If you graduate and learn something in your four years, we would feel happy. Your Columbia degree will take you far, even if you don’t graduate with honors. So please don’t give yourself pressure。During your last few months in high school, you were so happy because there was little pressure and college applications are finished. But in the past few weeks, we saw you are beginning to worry (did you know you bite your nails when you are nervous?). Please don’t be worried. The only thing that matters is that you learned. The only metric you should use is that you tried. Grades are just silly letters that give the vain people something to brag, and the lazy people something to fear. You are too good to be either.
　　Most importantly, make friends and be happy. College friends are often the best in life, because during college you are closer to them physically than to your family. Also, going through independence and adulthood is a natural bonding experience. Pick a few friends and become really close to them – pick the ones who are genuine and sincere to you. Don’t worry about their hobbies, grades, looks, or even personalities. You have developed some real friendships in high school in your last two years, so trust your instinct, and make new friends. You are a genuine and sincere person – anyone would enjoy being your friend, so be confident, outgoing, and pro-active. If you think you like someone, tell her. You have very little to lose. Give people the benefit of the doubt; don’t stereotype and be forgiving. People are not perfect, so as long as they are genuine and sincere, trust them and be good to them. They will give back. This is my secret of success – that I am genuine with people and trust them (unless they do something to lose my trust). Some people tell me that occasionally I would be taken advantage of. They are right, but I can tell you that that loss is nothing compared to what I gained. In my last 18 years leading people, I have realized that only one thing matters – to gain the trust and respect of others, and to do so, you need to trust and respect others first. Whether it is for management, work, or friendship, this is something you should ponder.
　　Do keep your high school friends, and stay connected to them, but do not use them as substitutes for college friendship, and do not spend too much time with them, because that would eat into your time to make new friends.
　　Start planning for your summers early – what would you like to do? Where would you like to live? What would you like to learn? What have you learned in college that might change your mind? I think your plan of studying fashion is good, and you should decide where you want to be, and get into the right courses. We of course hope you come back to Beijing, but you should go where you think is best for you.
　　Whether it is summer-planning, or coursework planning, or picking a major, or managing your time, you should take control of your life. In the past, I have helped you quite a bit, whether it is in college application, designing your extracurricular activities, or picking the initial coursework. I will always be there for you, but the time has come for you to be in the driver’s seat – this is your life, and you need to be in control. I will always remember the exhilarating feeling in my life – that I got to decide to skip kindergarten, that I got to decide to change to computer science major, that I got to decide to leave academia for Apple, that I got to decide to go to China, that I got to decide to go to Google, and most recently, that I got to decide to start my own business. Being able to decide means you get to live the life that you want to. Life is too short to live the life others do or others want you. Being in control feels great. Try it, and you’ll love it!
　　I told your mom I’m writing this letter, and asked what she wanted me to say. She thought and said: “just ask her to take care of herself.” Simple but deeply caring – that is how your mother is, and that is why you love her so much. In this simple sentence is her hope that you will become independent in the way you take care of yourself – that you will remember to take your medicine, that you will get enough sleep, that you will have a balanced diet, that you will get some exercise, and that you will go see a doctor whenever you don’t feel good. An ancient Chinese proverb says that the most important thing to be nice to your parents is to take care of yourself. This is because your parents love you so much, and that if you are well, they will have comfort. You will understand this one day when you become a mother. But in the meantime, please listen to your mother and take care of yourself.
　　College is the four years where you have:
　　• the greatest amount of free time
　　• the first chance to be independent
　　• the most flexibility to change
　　• the lowest risk for making mistakes
　　So please treasure your college years – make the best of your free time, become an independent thinker in control of your destiny, evolve yourself into a bi-cultural talent, be bold to experiment, learn and grow through your successes and challenges.
　　When I faced the greatest challenge and opportunity in my life in 2005, you gave me a big hug and said “bonne chance”, which means “good luck” and “good courage”. Now I do the same for you. Bonne chance, my angel and princess. May Columbia become the happiest four years in your life, and may you blossom into just what you dream to be. ]]> http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257320508#comment 142606848 Wed, 04 Nov 2009 07:41:48 GMT http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257320508 http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257320038 　　最近工作很忙，很多乱七八糟的事情，还被客户催来催去的。在客户面前，怎么就觉得跟欠他了一样。处理好了这个问题，客户就会给你找下一个问题，总是有不断的问题需要去处理，并且还要和颜悦色的说，不能表现出不耐烦，NND。
　　当要解决问题的时候，找前台，美工，技术，各个都说有事，等会!要么就是让请示领导，找出一大堆理由拖延时间。客户的电话一个接一个，弄的办公桌上的电话都不想接，只要电话响了就胆怯。还好，客户也是比较客气的人，我在想，当时领导让我去给别人讲的时候，我怎么就那么爽快的答应了呢?到现在一堆事情，忙不过来，不断的协调，不断的催促。
　　没有想到接了这个活之后，这个项目就归我了，我现在不明白我到底是干啥的。领导发话：这个交给你了，解决协调客户所有的要求。无语啊，我着急呀!营销部天天催，编辑部天天事情多，可....真的无语。赶紧忙完得了，以后做事情一定要留个心眼，要不自找麻烦!某个人的不配合，让我很反感，还不时的诚心找事，不想说什么，挺郁闷的。 ]]> http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257320038#comment 142606848 Wed, 04 Nov 2009 07:33:58 GMT http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257320038 http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1256697838 　　营销中心战略合作部活动公告：
　　第一届 财视天下与券商信息化共建暨投资者教育研讨会
　　为了加深、加大和券商的紧密合作关系，提升“财视信息岛”项目的拓展速度，达到事半功倍的效果，所以市场中心在本周15日进行券商合作交流会!为了完成以下的目的，我们战略合作部门计划开始进行第一期研讨会;联手北京市证券协会，共同邀请14家券商总经理，由北京证券协会牵头，我们承办，进行对券商的信息化论坛和投资者教育，举办此次活动我们的目的如下;
　　1、推出财视天下;
　　2、提升财视天下在业内的知名度和相关的权威地位
　　3、进行行业的研讨，确定我们的合作方向
　　4、明确和券商营业部的合作目标和技术讲解
　　5、完成我们在北京200券商营业部信息岛铺设的任务
　　一、会议地点：北京市朝阳区光华路10号世贸天街B108 SONG
　　二、会议时间：20010年10月30日 上午9：30 - 13：00
　　三、与会嘉宾：
　　1、北京证券业协会 监事长
　　2、中信建投证券有限责任公司 副总经理
　　3、中国民族证券有限责任公司 总经理
　　4、招商证券股份有限公司 总经理
　　5、国金证券股份有限公司 总经理
　　6、西南证券股份有限公司 总经理
　　7、中原证券股份有限公司 副总经理
　　8、民生证券有限责任公司 副总经理
　　9、湘财证券有限责任公司 总经理
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　　(以上排名不分先后) ]]> http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1256697838#comment 142606848 Wed, 28 Oct 2009 02:43:58 GMT http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1256697838 http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1256394475 　　今天不小心撞到树上了，头撞了好大一个包，还流血了呢，有个小伤口!哎，真是祸不单行哈，手上的伤稍有好转，头就这样了!哎，觉得自己是笨到极点了。
　　头很疼，有点麻木的感觉，实在是太疼了。不经意撞到树上，这感觉真不好受，看来爱爱同学叫我“马大哈”真没错哦!在我不经意间犯过很多错的!走路一定要看着前方，抬头做人看来是很重要的哦!
　　以后走路一定会看路的，我这个人怎么天天晕晕的呢?一定要做个检讨，我也不知我是太聪明还是真的傻了?朋友们评价的真不错! ]]> http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1256394475#comment 142606848 Sat, 24 Oct 2009 14:27:55 GMT http://251980101.qzone.qq.com/blog/1256394475