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woohoo~跨年大PARTY！

278165532@qq.com(lulu) — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 03:02:11 GMT

很久没有时间和老朋友，老同学大家聚聚了~ 别老忙着儿女情长还是商场上的事业打拼，大过年的也应该休息一下吧！

Anyway，就是我邀请大家来参加我的新年大派对！你和你的朋友，朋友的朋友都是被邀请的。所以留下你的email，我会给你发邀请卡。今年我12月23号~明年1月6号都在南宁，当然party会在我凤凰城里的新家举行。大概会在元旦左右会有时间吧。写下你觉得喜欢的时间，大概是1月1，2，3号左右。谢谢~~ 太激动了！ I can't wait~~~

我回来咯，爱你们！

写下点儿哥儿们能看懂的玩意儿~~~献丑了=)

278165532@qq.com(lulu) — Sun, 22 Jun 2008 14:29:37 GMT

有点过份吧我,一直十三个月没有在这里唠过中文了
手底下的键盘都不免有点感到生疏~~~
一个一个周末光速似的从我们身边飞逝而过
天啊,我的岁月我的青春成为明日自己笔下的一段段五颜六色的历史
怎么说着说着有点凄惨啊唉
一年了在这个一年前对我来说梦里期盼已久的圣地我似乎又学到很多
天啊~~ 啪~~~ 嘴边不时的冒出几句"羊肉串" 我在克服, 我在克服
前两天和lily 聊天时因为这个被骂的不行
男人下个月就动身去德国了
奇怪的是现在的自己没有肝肠寸断更别提歇斯底里
整个大小脑半球装着的都是理智和洒脱
是洒脱吗,唔~~ 可能吧
还是书念读多了,变得有点冷血和麻木不仁
他说要走的那天,我们像往常一样,他在我们常去的cafe等我下课
像往常一样,叫了我最喜欢的macha cake
分辨不出是嘴里的macha苦,还是心里那股涩味
一直和花花抱怨这里的酷暑剥夺了我时尚的权利
prada可爱的蛋糕群和channel五色的洋装外套~~ 嗯,只能乖乖躺在那等着那些遥遥无期的冬季
可是那天,那天的我在却在这感受狮城夏季里最冷的一天
年底就毕业了,大家都在问我的打算
毕业了, 要干嘛呢?
嘿嘿~~~~ 吓你们的,天不怕地不怕的怎么可能没有人生方向呢

人在异国,感受着那一份漂泊,有时不免心生怯意
从来没有想过自己会一个人独自走出国门,享受着这一份风筝迎风飞舞的轻盈
走出来,你的视野里不仅仅只有北京上海,你关心的甚至于哥斯达黎加的咖啡树受到火山威胁的情况
心里装着全世界,窃喜~~ 你面对的也是你从未尝试过的经历人生当然还有你意想不到的异国恋情啵~~
心里有一个劲儿,摇旗呐喊着,
爱情,爱情,我们要真正的爱情yeah~~~KISS

The things that men usually do to women – it’s changed!

278165532@qq.com(lulu) — Tue, 29 Jan 2008 02:18:36 GMT

You might soon see more and more different feminine styles strutting along the catwalk in the fashion capitals of Milan, Paris and New York. * For decades, the male designer has delighted in dressing women exactly how he likes, regardless of how well-dressed he is or clumsy his creations. Men, by contrast, have always been able to dress practically in well-tailored suits.

At the menswear shows in Milan over the last two weeks, two labels built in the image of their female figureheads released autumn and winter collections that suggested things are only going to get tougher. In recent years, however, things have been altered. Now, an increasing number of female designers are able to create without male intervention. Although these fresh new articles will not be suitable for men in daily life, they will give them the opportunity to be aware of their own sense of style. A new wave of well-heeled yet fashionably-inept men could soon be released from the banality (blandness) of their attire, thanks to female designers and their intelligence.

Further, more and more enterprises would tap into this huge new market for menswear after two shows, and would want to recruit many female designers using their own particular conceptions to create a fresh vision of male attire. Provided you're young, slim and beautiful enough, you can devote your life to becoming a photogenic stylist for rich and stressed-out men.

such a terrible news from Guardian

278165532@qq.com(lulu) — Tue, 22 Jan 2008 02:28:29 GMT

I cann't believe this news was from the lovely place that I ever lived. Hope everything should be fine now~~~~~

Guangxi province, China: Girls play on parched land. Last year a severe drought left more than 2.4 million people short of drinking water.

Did you ever cry on your job?

278165532@qq.com(lulu) — Sat, 12 Jan 2008 15:28:32 GMT

Sometimes, the tears are seemed like a weapon for women in work. From the paper, 15 women were interviewed from a variety of occupations, including teaching, customer service, aircraft cabin crew and management. Twelve of them had cried at work at sometime and the other three had wanted to cry. Women are stronger as men today; they can do whatever they want to be not only staying at home take care the household. However, I don’t think it’s a sensible behavior for solving the problems during the work.

Firstly, I didn’t understand why they have to expressing their feeling while they are suffering or feel helpless. Although they feel embarrassed, they can not control themselves for appearing weak. I found the reason after I got the job which is a lady—working environment last year. Women prefer to do everything perfectly and they intend to get some attention from colleagues or boss. They might feel lost deeply when they didn’t have the satisfaction from the boss or some seniors. You might be familiar with the scene of women crying after the meeting or voting.

Otherwise, woman would be sympathetic if a colleague burst into tears, and not automatically view them negatively. “I felt regret once,” a senior colleague told me. “I made a girl cry in a meeting and I didn’t give her apologize before she resign.

Tears could somehow be used as a woman’s weapon in the office and people feel that is a normal phenomenon. Don’t be cry any more and give the chance to anyone use the crying at work against you. To be a wisdom woman, we won’t be able to use that weapon but the highly intelligence and skillful working.

My Christmas journey

278165532@qq.com(lulu) — Mon, 07 Jan 2008 12:32:46 GMT

I haven’t celebrated the Christmas, but I planed to give a trip to myself in the year that I was by myself in Singapore. To many people, Christmas just a chance for shopping, eating, meeting friends… I haven’t got many friends here, because I’m still a new one in this city, and I can’t have a crazy shopping, I know there is my account can not afford it. So I decided have a low-cost trip is the best way to thanks myself and relax my body. I like traveling. There are many new places, new people, good view you haven’t seen before. That should be wonderful if you are luck to find someone can take some amazing photos for you.

At the end, I decided to go to Malaysia the nearest one for Singapore with my brother. We prepared everything like booking the transfer ticket, hotel before we go. Everything was double price for the traveling big season. Fortunately, the exchange rate between sin-dollar and rangi(the name of Malaysia money) can fill up the gap.

We spent three days in penang which is a city famous by their food. Wow, such a food heaven that you can not refuse anyone there. There are plenty of different snakes in my mind; I can’t remember which one is my favorite however hard I tried. The most fabulous time was the days we stayed in langkawei. I really enjoyed the sea facing swimming pool, the sunshine, the nice resort, the bar on the beach and many free duty shops. Even thought I know we should not spend too much money for shopping, I can’t control myself for the crazy price. The night I can not find an appropriate word to describe is we spend on the train from langkawei to KL. We got the train from a simple and unsophisticated station. There are looked like the old station used to in china in the beginning of the 19th. There are a few wooden long chairs, some potted plants on the lobby of the stop. Some people see off their friends, families. Suddenly it seems we were returned to the 19th or we were in the history movie, I was not sure where I am. Anyway, I had a great time there, and I think I will never forget my trip was in this country.

My life & my job

278165532@qq.com(lulu) — Tue, 11 Sep 2007 13:22:14 GMT

开口争取更多的权益是一种尊重自我的行为;
拒绝安于现状是在伸张自我价值;
至于毫不恋栈地转身离开,则是一种自信的表现.

-------<亿万女富豪赚钱智慧> 芭芭拉．史坦妮

工作如此,爱情也不外乎如此
你说呢~~~
唉!~~~

complain & complacence and complaisance

278165532@qq.com(lulu) — Wed, 22 Aug 2007 15:22:36 GMT

念起来,他们都好相像,可是意义却谬以千里~~~~~~~~~``
原来无论中西,人们都喜欢故弄玄虚,明明是如此根深蒂固不同的东西
长相,body和发音都如此相像

困了,未完,待续~~~~~~

sorry啊,不记得自己想要骂什么人了,算了,本小姐放他们一马
呼~~~ 退一步云淡风轻

今天你吃了吗?

278165532@qq.com(lulu) — Fri, 27 Jul 2007 03:43:34 GMT

时至今日,我们已不再为了饱食三顿而不懈努力
精神生活的不断充实,让我们已疲于乏力对物质的追求
很欣赏西方人那种坦白和诚恳
第一次走进教室,第一次在这个小小的国际舞台大谈自己的梦想时,显得有些拘束和不知所措
她们可以肆无忌惮的大声说出:"我的梦想就是当一名称职的housewife"
他们也无所顾忌的说出:"我的梦想是和我爱的人经营一个农场"
对于中国人来说,我们从不会把这样的想法作为自己人生的最终梦想时,却有人在我们面前向我们大声疾呼:"这就是真正的生活!"
80前的我们现在已经是进入事业的起步期,只有让自己尽早的适应这个残酷和现实的世界
我们还必须遵循这样一些黄金生存法则:
播种了一种思想，便会有行为的收获；
播种了一种行为，便会有习惯的收获；
播种了一种习惯，便会有品德的收获；
播种了一种品德，便会有命运的收获。

我教他说"sorry!"

278165532@qq.com(lulu) — Sun, 15 Jul 2007 13:04:03 GMT

莎士比亚说:
"要和一个男人相处得快乐，你应该多多了解他而不必太爱他，
要和一个女人相处得快乐，你应该多爱她，却别想要了解她。"
原来试图改变一个Male真的是件很困难的事情
除了理顺他们的脾气,照顾他们的情绪,让他们有里子也不失面子
不知道什么时候,我开始讨厌别人对我Say "sorry!"(难道是受道明寺那种傻B的影响,不可能,不可能......)
可是我却在这之前犯下了一个弥天大错,教会他说:"对不起,我错了"
以前他也从不会说这样的话,因为我,要满足自己骄傲的虚荣心
其实我并不知道,这样一句话是最没有分量和作用的
我们都很无知,因为我们都很年轻,年轻人的轻狂在我们身上崭露无疑
我痛恨男人们说"对不起",就像也痛恨他们帮自己女友背包包一样
听人说,
"一个男人同时是大男人和小男人的化身
大男人的他们，希望女人完全迁就他，令他放心；
小男人的他们，意识到自己懦弱无能的一面，犹豫不决."
那学会Say "Sorry!"是属于哪一种表现呢
男人一生都会像迷途的羔羊，看不懂红绿灯和指南针，而且自卑、懦弱又爱面子
女人们想要的幸福,不是天上掉下来的，也并非理所当然的，而是靠你的包容和关爱挣来的