<![CDATA[感冒冰激凌]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com Sat, 28 Nov 2009 07:26:09 GMT Qzone zh-cn Copyright (C), 2005-2008, Tencent Tech. Co., Ltd. Sun, 08 Nov 2009 14:43:21 GMT <![CDATA[小聚]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257691401 下车前赖森打电话过来说桥锋还没起来不想去体育馆了，我可没管那么多，放话说他不起来你也得揪他起来啊，怎么能在约好之后又不出现呢？按照预定的时间，我还早到了10分钟，于是找个凳子边等他们边观看对面篮球场的篮球赛。
很久没有感受现场篮球比赛的气氛，很久没有听到场上为篮球队员呐喊的声音，很久没有和赖森他们一起打球，很久没有和他们小聚一下。。。。。。。。。原来，我还是怀念大学的美好时光的。所有的“很久很久”，皆因“忙”！对于我这样的单身主义来说，我并不理解他们究竟有多忙，他们口中的“忙”，只是一个借口。同样，当我跟他们说我忙的时候，他们应该也不会理解我究竟有多忙。有人曾经说过，借口都是谎言，只不过那是善意的谎言罢了！试着站在对方的角度看问题的时候，也许也就不会有那么多的误解了。
终于看到桥锋和赖森的身影了，靠近看才知道他们都穿了大学时候标有班级名称的球衣出来，我还开玩笑的说如果知道他们穿的球衣这么有默契，我也穿有班级名称的球衣出来好了。看他们的样子都是没吃早餐被我逼着出来的。哈哈，赖森还没上场就说太阳大又说头晕了。果然没猜错，他们都是饿着肚子跑出来打球的，赖森头晕应该也是因为低血糖的缘故吧？
投篮没多久，我们都觉得手痒想找人开场了。当然，踩场这么艰巨的任务一般都是由赖森去执行的，不过今天的他好像没什么劲头执行任务，结果就由我物色对手了。呵呵，还不赖，第一次出手就逮住了几个兔崽子和我们一起玩。虽然只玩了一个多小时，但我还是挺尽兴的。
真幸运，今天的我终于不用动手下厨了。难得赖森LP今天也休息，所以下厨的事就由她来包办了。当然，也少不了桥锋的鼎力相助，我们才有这么美味的午饭！阿四居然忘记早点起床和我们一起打球，开始做饭的时候才出现在我们的面前。芳芳姐出现的时间远比我们想象的晚，来到的时候我们已经吃完了。趁赖森陪芳芳姐吃饭的时候，桥锋、阿四和我玩起了斗地主，我今天的手气也不错，胡乱出牌都赢了他们，O(∩_∩)O哈哈~
唠叨唠叨，才发现，毕业两年后周围同学的变化也不少，好像只是我们几个没怎么变。相聚的时间总是美好而短暂，转眼又分离，期待下一次相聚。。。。。。。 ]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257691401#comment 134218240 Sun, 08 Nov 2009 14:43:21 GMT http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257691401 <![CDATA[砍柴的故事]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257514581
年轻人百思不解，以为自己不够努力，下定决心明天要更卖力才行；结果隔天的成绩反而比前几天还差；这个时候，有一个老前辈就叫这个年轻人过去泡茶，年轻人心想：成绩那么烂！那来的美国时间休息啊？便大声回答：谢谢！我没有时间！

老前辈笑着摇头说：傻小子！一直在砍材都不磨刀，成绩不好迟早要放弃的，真是精力过剩。

原来，老前辈们利用泡茶、聊天、休息的时候，也一边在磨刀，难怪他们很快的就能够把树砍倒；老前辈拍拍年轻人的肩膀说道：年轻人要努力！但是别忘了要记得省力千万可别用蛮力！哈……老前辈闪着他刚磨好发亮的斧头!

你呢？别忘记！你要的是效率，不是有事情做就好。
提升你的技巧、能力，你才会有时间做你应该做的事情。
不然就是去唱「没时间」吧！
学习解压的方法很重要，提供几个舒缓压力的要诀：

1.深呼吸 - 当自己觉得有压力时，先做几个深呼吸，让自己稍微平静一下。
2.暂时离开 - 有时短暂的离开压力情境，事情反而更容易处理。
3.笑一笑 - 不管目前如何，都让自己笑一笑，不管是假笑、苦笑都好，让自己看看微笑的自己。
4.动一动 - 让自己活动一下，身心是一体的，让身体藉由运动放松，心理也会有同样的效果。如果能让自己养成运动的习惯，自己的身体健康及抗压指数，都会有大幅提升喔！
5.一次一件事 - 有压力，常常是自己同时面对很多事情，而正困扰其中的时候。此时，让自己一次只想一件事，一次只处理一件事。
6.整理一下再出发 - 让自己整理一下再出发。有时事情无法处理，常常是因为自己慌了，让自己静一静，想一想究竟发生什么事，过程中有哪些方法会是有帮助的。 ]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257514581#comment 134218240 Fri, 06 Nov 2009 13:36:21 GMT http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257514581 <![CDATA[When you are old]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1247786416 When you are old and gray and full of sleep
And nodding by the fire, take down this book,
And slowly read, and dream of the soft look
Your eyes had once, and of their shadows deep;

How many loved your moments of glad grace,
And loved your beauty with love false or true;
But one man loved the pilgrim soul in you,
And loved the sorrows of your changing face;

And bending down beside the glowing bars
Murmur, a little sadly, how love fled
And paced upon the mountains overhead,
And hid his face amid a crowd of stars. ]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1247786416#comment 134218240 Thu, 16 Jul 2009 23:20:16 GMT http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1247786416 <![CDATA[The furthest distance in the world]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1247530462 The furthest distance in the world
Is not between life and death
But when I stand in front of you
Yet you don't know that I love you
The furthest distance in the world
Is not when I stand in font of you, yet you can't see my love
But when undoubtedly knowing the love from both
Yet cannot
Be together
The furthest distance in the world
Is not being apart while being in love
But when plainly can not resist the yearning
Yet pretending You have never been in my heart
The furthest distance in the world
Is not when plainly can not resist the yearning
But using one's indifferent heart
To dig an uncrossable river
For the one who loves you
]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1247530462#comment 134218240 Tue, 14 Jul 2009 00:14:22 GMT http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1247530462 <![CDATA[Remenber the good things]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1246925489 When times become difficult (and you know they sometimes will), remember a moment in your life that was filled with joy and happiness.
Remember how it made you feel, and you will have the strength you need to get through any trial.
When life throws you one more obstacle than you think you can handle, remember something you achieved through perseverance and by struggling to the end.
In doing so, you'll find you have the ability to overcome each obstacle brought your way.
When you find yourself drained and depleted of energy, remember to find a place of sanctuary and rest.
Take the neccessary time in your own life to dream your dreams and renew your energy, so you'll be ready to face each new day.
When you feel tension building, find something fun to do. You'll find that the stress you feel will dissipate and your thoughts will become clearer.
When you're faced with so many negative and draining situations, realize how minuscule problems will seem when you view your life as a whole--and remember the positive things.
]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1246925489#comment 134218240 Tue, 07 Jul 2009 00:11:29 GMT http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1246925489 <![CDATA[You still have today]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1246406969 How can you be defeated, When you still have today?
What could possibly keep you down? Who could dare to hold you back?
When the promise of a new day looms?
The day that lies ahead has not yet happened, and you can make of it whatever you will.
You are right here, right now, with everything you need to make this your most successful day yet.
Every mistake you've ever made is now in the past. Each one has taught you something.
Today is yours, free and clear, the grandest opportunity you've ever known.
The disappointments and regrets that once felt like such a burden, now will give you the energy and desire to move ahead.
Today is more than enough promise, and you can make it yours.
]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1246406969#comment 134218240 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 00:09:29 GMT http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1246406969 <![CDATA[Life is all about choices]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1245850445 Each morning I wake up and say to myself , you have two choices today.

You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood. I choose to be in a good mood.

Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or choose to learn from it.
I choose to learn from it.

Every time someone comes to me complaining I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life.
I choose the positive side of life."

"Life is all about choices.
When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice.
You choose how you react to situations.
You choose how people will affect your mood.
You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood.
The bottom line is: It's your choice how you live life. ]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1245850445#comment 134218240 Wed, 24 Jun 2009 13:34:05 GMT http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1245850445 <![CDATA[Doves In The Rain]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1245365498
　　Doves in the rain
　　Flap perfect wings.

　　They deliver to our earth
　　A blessing bright as the dew.
　　
　
　　Doves in the rain
　　Shoot out as a dry stem.

　　Doves in the rain
　　Flap courage and firmness.
　
　　They are opening
　　The drawer of autumn
　　And picking a pencil colorful
　　For the olive tree loveable.
　　
　　　　Doves in the rain
　　Have a dream only---
　　To see lovely kids up-grow
　　Not our earth in sick bruise.
　　
　　　　Oh! Doves! Will you try along with us
to make the nice dream come true?
]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1245365498#comment 134218240 Thu, 18 Jun 2009 22:51:38 GMT http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1245365498 <![CDATA[On work]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1245365328 You have been told also life is darkness,
and in your weariness you echo what was said by the weary.
And I say that life is indeed darkness save when there is urge,
And all urge is blind save when there is knowledge;
And all knowledge is vain save when there is work;
And all work is empty save when there is love;
And when you work with love you bind yourself to yourself;
and to one another, and to God.
]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1245365328#comment 134218240 Thu, 18 Jun 2009 22:48:48 GMT http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1245365328 <![CDATA[In your life]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1244461848 There is someone that is coming or passing away in your life around the clock, so you may lose sight of those seen, and forget those remembered.
There is gain and loss in your life, so you may catch sight of those unseen, and remember those forgotten.
Nevertheless, doesn't the unseen exist for sure?
Will the remembered remain for ever?

It's true that we have been leading a difficult life, for we need not only to be under various external pressures, but also to be in the face of internal perplexities.
You would be affected by the warmth of life if someone gives you an understanding look during your bitter struggle.
Even a mere glance would make you moved and inspired.

Be sure that you have never had any regrets in your life which only lasts for a few decades.
Laugh or cry as you like, and it's meaningless to oppress yourself. ]]> http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1244461848#comment 134218240 Mon, 08 Jun 2009 11:50:48 GMT http://282330806.qzone.qq.com/blog/1244461848