http://478419647.qzone.qq.com Sun, 29 Nov 2009 21:41:50 GMT Qzone zh-cn Copyright (C), 2005-2008, Tencent Tech. Co., Ltd. Thu, 26 Nov 2009 01:42:56 GMT http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1259199776 好久没有看片了，昨天晚上手贱，没有看书。。。看了一部片子。。自省一下。。。今天晚上继续看书。。。
看的是俞飞鸿的爱有来生，至少我是被打动了。。。可恨平时读书太少写不出优美的文字来形容自己的感觉，转了下面的影评，於我心有戚戚焉


《爱有来生》
　　期待了很久
　　起初不是为了那一场中国式的朱丽叶与罗密欧的爱情
　　只是很简单的为了看看那一个《士兵突击》里的硬汉怎么演绎爱情
　　还是缠绵悱恻的爱情
　　就好像小时候看《西游记》
　　总是好奇得想如果唐僧真的娶了女儿国国王会是什么样子呢
　　这样的爱情总是牵扯着我的心
　　让我穷尽精力也想象不出它应有的画面和结果
　　所以我真的想看导演是怎么安排这个硬汉谈恋爱
　　
　　然而我想
　　我是真的被打动了
　　一个小小的故事
　　异常简单的爱情悲剧让我从开头就能猜到结尾
　　但是故事吸引与否并不重要
　　重要的是讲故事的人去怎么讲这个故事
　　
　　电影的开头就被一种淡淡的情绪围绕着
　　青山，千年银杏，书香缠绕的阁楼，香气悠远的清茶
　　以及一个淡淡的女子
　　黄旧的画面似乎就那么一扯
　　就扯到了你心里最柔软的地方
　　我静静的看着一个男子暖软的眼神
　　那里除了深情还是深情
　　不去管她会有怎样的回应
　　他只是呆呆的望着她
　　静静地，哪怕是守上一百年那么久
　　不去管她如何冷漠
　　只是一味的对她好
　　哪怕杜鹃花开了又谢，谢了又开
　　
　　终究还是世俗之人
　　那一句：“茶凉了，我去再给你续上！”
　　再也稳不住他年轻而热情的心
　　滚烫之物突然冷却所忍受的疼痛
　　如果不能表露也只能出家为僧
　　他是真的心凉了
　　也许事事皆有定数
　　寺庙的生活反而让心中充满仇恨的人暂时安宁
　　两个人静静的生活
　　还是那样
　　“茶凉了，我去再给你续上！”
　　只不过一个在庙里，一个在庙外
　　不一样的是他的柔软会有她莞尔的笑容作为回应
　　我看到了一个掉进爱情里的女子
　　
　　我想
　　爱情终究来临了
　　只不过是在错误的时间错误的地点
　　这……注定是个悲剧
　　
　　故事的高潮也是结尾
　　鲜活的生命，无果的爱情，一场彻头不彻尾的背叛，一段辛酸
　　结束了两代人的仇恨
　　只是
　　这一场错误的爱情似乎惹人怜惜
　　因为从头到尾男女主角少而贫乏的台词里都没有真正的告白
　　“茶凉了，我去再给你续上！”
　　看完了才能体会到女主角这句台词里包含了多少深情
　　身负血海深仇的她对自己的仇人讲出这句话已是最深的告白
　　只是那时他不懂
　　我也不懂
　　现在
　　我想我体会到了那种深情
　　
　　物欲横流的年代
　　80后的我们只能看见轰轰烈烈的爱情肥皂剧
　　我想，这种淡淡的爱情也是好的吧
　　至少它让我体味出了爱情的宁静
　　那种宁静深深地萦绕心头
　　久久不散……
　　
　　看完后淡淡的心情体味出也许幸福就是这样的
　　“我知道你是多么喜欢那所宅院
　　那天 在银杏树下看到你的眼神
　　我就知道 你再也不想走了
　　好像有什么东西吸引住了你
　　当时我就告诉自己
　　我一定要买下这所房子
　　我要让你过上安逸的生活
　　再也不奔波了
　　我们将在这所房子里生一大群孩子
　　任岁月流过 与你相携伴老
　　而就算我们都老到了鹤发鸡皮
　　你仍是我心中最美的人”
　　……
　　 ]]> http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1259199776#comment 134218240 Thu, 26 Nov 2009 01:42:56 GMT http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1259199776 http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1259033722
可怕的天平。。。 ]]> http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1259033722#comment 134218240 Tue, 24 Nov 2009 03:35:22 GMT http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1259033722 http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258710096
该好好整理一下，重新出发，查漏补缺，加油！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！

天行健，君子以自强不息！！哈哈，我也文学青年一把 ]]> http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258710096#comment 134218240 Fri, 20 Nov 2009 09:41:36 GMT http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258710096 http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258363191 ]]> http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258363191#comment 134218240 Mon, 16 Nov 2009 09:19:51 GMT http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258363191 http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258001759
the day is approaching... extremely nervous... ]]> http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258001759#comment 134218240 Thu, 12 Nov 2009 04:55:59 GMT http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1258001759 http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257168735 This is the text of the Commencement address by Steve Jobs, CEO of Apple Computer and of Pixar Animation Studios, delivered on June 12, 2005.
I am honored to be with you today at your commencement from one of the finest universities in the world. I never graduated from college. Truth be told, this is the closest I've ever gotten to a college graduation. Today I want to tell you three stories from my life. That's it. No big deal. Just three stories.
The first story is about connecting the dots.
I dropped out of Reed College after the first 6 months, but then stayed around as a drop-in for another 18 months or so before I really quit. So why did I drop out?
It started before I was born. My biological mother was a young, unwed college graduate student, and she decided to put me up for adoption. She felt very strongly that I should be adopted by college graduates, so everything was all set for me to be adopted at birth by a lawyer and his wife. Except that when I popped out they decided at the last minute that they really wanted a girl. So my parents, who were on a waiting list, got a call in the middle of the night asking: "We have an unexpected baby boy; do you want him?" They said: "Of course." My biological mother later found out that my mother had never graduated from college and that my father had never graduated from high school. She refused to sign the final adoption papers. She only relented a few months later when my parents promised that I would someday go to college.
And 17 years later I did go to college. But I naively chose a college that was almost as expensive as Stanford, and all of my working-class parents' savings were being spent on my college tuition. After six months, I couldn't see the value in it. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no idea how college was going to help me figure it out. And here I was spending all of the money my parents had saved their entire life. So I decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out OK. It was pretty scary at the time, but looking back it was one of the best decisions I ever made. The minute I dropped out I could stop taking the required classes that didn't interest me, and begin dropping in on the ones that looked interesting.
It wasn't all romantic. I didn't have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends' rooms, I returned coke bottles for the 5￠ deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple. I loved it. And much of what I stumbled into by following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on. Let me give you one example:
Reed College at that time offered perhaps the best calligraphy instruction in the country. Throughout the campus every poster, every label on every drawer, was beautifully hand calligraphed. Because I had dropped out and didn't have to take the normal classes, I decided to take a calligraphy class to learn how to do this. I learned about serif and san serif typefaces, about varying the amount of space between different letter combinations, about what makes great typography great. It was beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that science can't capture, and I found it fascinating.
None of this had even a hope of any practical application in my life. But ten years later, when we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me. And we designed it all into the Mac. It was the first computer with beautiful typography. If I had never dropped in on that single course in college, the Mac would have never had multiple typefaces or proportionally spaced fonts. And since Windows just copied the Mac, its likely that no personal computer would have them. If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do. Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college. But it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later.
Again, you can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.
My second story is about love and loss.
I was lucky — I found what I loved to do early in life. Woz and I started Apple in my parents garage when I was 20. We worked hard, and in 10 years Apple had grown from just the two of us in a garage into a $2 billion company with over 4000 employees. We had just released our finest creation — the Macintosh — a year earlier, and I had just turned 30. And then I got fired. How can you get fired from a company you started? Well, as Apple grew we hired someone who I thought was very talented to run the company with me, and for the first year or so things went well. But then our visions of the future began to diverge and eventually we had a falling out. When we did, our Board of Directors sided with him. So at 30 I was out. And very publicly out. What had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating.
I really didn't know what to do for a few months. I felt that I had let the previous generation of entrepreneurs down - that I had dropped the baton as it was being passed to me. I met with David Packard and Bob Noyce and tried to apologize for screwing up so badly. I was a very public failure, and I even thought about running away from the valley. But something slowly began to dawn on me — I still loved what I did. The turn of events at Apple had not changed that one bit. I had been rejected, but I was still in love. And so I decided to start over.
I didn't see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.
During the next five years, I started a company named NeXT, another company named Pixar, and fell in love with an amazing woman who would become my wife. Pixar went on to create the worlds first computer animated feature film, Toy Story, and is now the most successful animation studio in the world. In a remarkable turn of events, Apple bought NeXT, I returned to Apple, and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apple's current renaissance. And Laurene and I have a wonderful family together.
I'm pretty sure none of this would have happened if I hadn't been fired from Apple. It was awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it. Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don't lose faith. I'm convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You've got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don't settle.
My third story is about death.
When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: "If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you'll most certainly be right." It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: "If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?" And whenever the answer has been "No" for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.
Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
About a year ago I was diagnosed with cancer. I had a scan at 7:30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas. I didn't even know what a pancreas was. The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three to six months. My doctor advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctor's code for prepare to die. It means to try to tell your kids everything you thought you'd have the next 10 years to tell them in just a few months. It means to make sure everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy as possible for your family. It means to say your goodbyes.
I lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a biopsy, where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor. I was sedated, but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery. I had the surgery and I'm fine now.
This was the closest I've been to facing death, and I hope its the closest I get for a few more decades. Having lived through it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept:
No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life's change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.
Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.
When I was young, there was an amazing publication called The Whole Earth Catalog, which was one of the bibles of my generation. It was created by a fellow named Stewart Brand not far from here in Menlo Park, and he brought it to life with his poetic touch. This was in the late 1960's, before personal computers and desktop publishing, so it was all made with typewriters, scissors, and polaroid cameras. It was sort of like Google in paperback form, 35 years before Google came along: it was idealistic, and overflowing with neat tools and great notions.
Stewart and his team put out several issues of The Whole Earth Catalog, and then when it had run its course, they put out a final issue. It was the mid-1970s, and I was your age. On the back cover of their final issue was a photograph of an early morning country road, the kind you might find yourself hitchhiking on if you were so adventurous. Beneath it were the words: "Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish." It was their farewell message as they signed off. Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish. And I have always wished that for myself. And now, as you graduate to begin anew, I wish that for you.
Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.
Thank you all very much ]]> http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257168735#comment 134218248 Mon, 02 Nov 2009 13:32:15 GMT http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257168735 http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257040780 今天是个特殊的日子

今天有两个有朋友过生日。。。一个是天秤，一个是天蝎。。呵呵。
北京的第一场雪下的真大啊，大清早的到处都是白白的，难得北京这么清静，呵呵~~
今天心情不错，就是晚上太冷了。。 ]]> http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257040780#comment 134219264 Sun, 01 Nov 2009 01:59:40 GMT http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1257040780 http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1256745985 ]]> http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1256745985#comment 134219264 Wed, 28 Oct 2009 16:06:25 GMT http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1256745985 http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1255788609 ]]> http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1255788609#comment 134219264 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 14:10:09 GMT http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1255788609 http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1255683547 夜色

　　在夜色中

　　我有三次受难：流浪 爱情 生存

　　我有三次幸福：诗歌 王位 太阳面朝大海，春暖花开

　　从明天起，做一个幸福的人

　　喂马，劈柴，周游世界

　　从明天起，关心粮食和蔬菜

　　我有一所房子，面朝大海，春暖花开

　　从明天起，和每一个亲人通信

　　告诉他们我的幸福

　　那幸福的闪电告诉我的

　　我将告诉每一个人

　　给每一条河每一座山取一个温暖的名字

　　陌生人，我也为你祝福

　　愿你有一个灿烂的前程

　　愿你有情人终成眷属

　　愿你在尘世获得幸福

　　我只愿面朝大海，春暖花开

　　解析：这是海子最出名的的诗，其中“面朝大海，春暖花开”享誉中国，给那些在生活中苦苦挣扎的人们以淳朴亲切的勉励。这首诗词藻简单，体现了他文笔不华丽却能打动人心的功力。 此文以“明天”引起，暗含“就算今天不如意，明天也是新的一天并且充满希望的一天”的意思，这也是鼓励和感动读者的重点。 ]]> http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1255683547#comment 134218240 Fri, 16 Oct 2009 08:59:07 GMT http://478419647.qzone.qq.com/blog/1255683547