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徘徊

957164655@qq.com(ゞＬǐn丶) — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 06:55:24 GMT

转眼一下子我已不知不觉成年了许久，然而我的内心还是那样的不成熟，许多事都无法理解！有时，真的会觉得生活难过，那是因为要想做一个平凡的人那样自由自在地过好每一天不是件容易的事，因为这些，我时常会觉得无比郁闷！有时会忍不了喊声“shit！”以解解气！有时我会选择用沉默来面对…因为此时语言已经再没有一点可用之处。哎，徘徊啊，徘徊啊…徘徊在人生的十字路口！我不想用太多的话语去解释什么，只想和“安静”为伴！呵呵，或许只有它才能真正懂我的心！为啥会徘徊，那是因为寂寞和种种的无奈……！oh my god！一直在想为什么不乐观积极点，可这东西谈何容易！嗯，朋友们！我想我们大家的心情是大同小异的！其实不必因为此刻的徘徊而感到茫然和失落，那是因为我们还有许许多多的老友在背后为咱默默鼓励加油！前方的美好事物还等待着我们呢！嘿嘿，打起精神继续向前冲吧…！

[转]偷偷老去的90后们~~~~

957164655@qq.com(ゞＬǐn丶) — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 10:39:49 GMT

喜欢隐身了，不怎么爱在群里发言了
　　不论和多少人在一块，手机总挂着QQ，一堆人聚在一块，一人一台手机，各玩各的
　　
　　
　　同学聚会必修的两个项目：吃饭，KTV
　　
　　小孩都开始叫自己叔叔或者阿姨了
　　
　　虽然经常不大情愿地反驳着：叫姐姐，叫哥哥
　　
　　永远寂寞，不管你是一人独处时，还是身在人群当中
　　
　　就像那首歌中唱的一样，孤单，是一个人的狂欢，狂欢，是一群人的孤单
　　　　
　　没那么愤青了，遇到不公的时候，会告诉自己，社会就是这样
　　
　　可以不看电视，但电脑是必需品
　　
　　出门蹦达必带三件宝：手机，钥匙，钱
　　
　　永远不知道钱花哪了，没怎么吃，没怎么穿
　　
　　消极，拒绝长大。不喜欢被人说成熟.
　　
　　熟人面前是话唠，生人面前一言不发
　　爱好中必定有一项是睡觉
　　
　　成天泡在网上，又不知道做什么好。
　　
　　
　　
　　最常说的一句话是“无聊”,尽管他们在网络上花去了大把时间。
　　
　　减肥是永恒不变的话题和行动
　　
　　饿了就吃，经常早饭午饭并在一起吃
　　
　　打字的手法相当不准确，但还是打的很快
　　
　　凌晨12点前和很少会入睡
　　
　　
　　
　　什么都可以“随便”，因为没那么多时间，也不在意那么多的事情
　　
　　毫无理由没有资本的高傲，骨子里却自卑，期待肯定，期待认可，被讨厌做人失败的时候连说话的勇气都没有。
　　
　　觉得别人不可能了解自己，并以此作为对别人不屑的理由。
　　
　　因为别人都恋爱了所以自己就恋爱了，更多的是练爱而不是恋爱，然后连自己都开始怀疑曾经对爱情的坚持。
　　
　　
　　
　　曾经以为一辈子陪在身边的朋友，某天某月，就突然发现他们都不见了
　　
　　午夜醒来，才愕然发现，从来都是只有自己一个人
　　
　　人越成长，越容易孤单
　　
　　90后的我们，有很多的梦想，有的实现了有的破灭了。
　　90后的我们，有的出名，有的默默无闻。
　　90后的我们，挣扎过彷徨过，还是挺过来了。
　　
　　90后的我们，退去青春年幼的智嫩，开始适应社会大家庭。
　　我们的心里都很清楚，我们经历了太多太多。
　　亲情的分与合
　　爱情的分与合
　　友情的分与合
　　曾不顾一切的追求过的，后来变的一文不值得。父母曾百般阻挠的事，直到自己受伤，才明白，父母原来是对的。
　　曾无数次的问过自己，为什么活着？到后来，已经懒得的去想活着的意义。
　　曾为了爱情可以不好好的读书，到后来为了工作可以丢下爱情。
　　
　　现在是否还记得最初的梦想？或者说，还有多少人，一直坚持着自己年少时的梦想。
　　在家里，父母对我们百依百顺，出了家门，我们对社会百依百顺。
　　看不惯的事情也就渐渐习惯了，不知道这种习惯是好是坏？
　　我甚至不知道我现在的梦想应该是什么？
　　但有一点的是肯定的，不会再做一些年少轻狂的梦了。

累

957164655@qq.com(ゞＬǐn丶) — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 07:12:55 GMT

其实来这里的日子是很闲的，可总是觉得活得很累！学习、生活等等都需要你去打理，哎…总想让自己独立起来，成熟起来！可说着容易，做起来却比登天还难！心情的变化比什么都快！oh my god！

[转]比尔盖茨的11条成功准则

957164655@qq.com(ゞＬǐn丶) — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 00:20:43 GMT

　　1、适应生活。生活是不公平的，要去适应它，把命运掌握在自己手中。

　　2、成功是你的人格资本。这世界并不会在意你的自尊，这个世界指望你在自我感觉良好之前先要有所成就。成功是人生的最高境界，成功可以改变你的人格和尊严。自负是愚蠢的。
　　3、别希望不劳而获。高中刚毕业的你不会一年赚4万美元。成功不会自动降临，成功来自积极的努力，要分解目标，循序渐进，坚持到底。
　　4、习惯律己。如果你认为你的老师严厉，等你有了老板再这样想。老板可是没有任期限制的。好习惯源自自我培养。
　　5、不要忽视小事。烙牛肉饼并不有损你的尊严，你祖父年代，那可能被称为机遇。平凡成就大事业。
　　6、从错误中汲取教训。如果你陷入困境，那不是你父母的过错，不要尖声抱怨。
　　7、事事自己动手。不要靠别人活着，要凭借自己的力量前进。
　　8、往往你只有一次机会。机遇是一种巨大的财富，机遇往往就那么一次，也许你没有机会，但可以创造。
　　9、时间，在你手中。生活部分学期，你并没有暑假可以休息，也没有几位雇主乐于帮你发现自我。
　　10、做该做的事情。电视并不是真实的生活。
　　11、善待身边的人。善待乏味的人。善待他人就是善待自己，要用赞扬代替批评并主动适应对方。

很无奈

957164655@qq.com(ゞＬǐn丶) — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 03:13:16 GMT

到了一个完全陌生的地方，孤身一人，无奈，无助，寂寞，茫然，还有一大堆的问号……也许人生就应该经历这样的状况吧？不过，我想这些小事是难不倒我的！我必须加倍努力，让他人对我刮目相看！总之，走自己的路，让别人死去吧！！！

“嫩了点”

957164655@qq.com(ゞＬǐn丶) — Wed, 06 May 2009 03:17:19 GMT

wet behind the ears.
“像刚生下来的婴儿一样，耳朵后的汗毛还是湿的”，引申为一个人“年轻，幼稚，没有经验”例如：

Attempt to do me in? You are still wet behind the ears. 想陷害我？你还嫩点儿。

唾手可得

957164655@qq.com(ゞＬǐn丶) — Sun, 26 Apr 2009 07:25:53 GMT

to take candy from a baby。Candy就是吃的糖，baby在中文里就是小孩。To take candy from a baby的意思就是：某件事情很容易办成，就像把孩子手里的糖拿来一样。请看下面这个例子：

Getting grandmother to loan me the money was as easy as taking candy from a baby." 要我祖母借我那笔钱那简直是太容易了。

我们再来举一个例子吧。这是一个被关在监狱里的犯人在和牢房里另一个犯人说话：

Louey told us that robbing this bank would be as easy as taking candy from a baby. But somebody told the police and they were waiting for us. We had no choice but to throw down our guns and surrender." 洛伊对我们说，要抢那个银行简直太容易了。可是，不知谁去报告了警察。到我们去抢银行时，警察在那里等着我们。我们没办法，只好放下枪投降。

To take candy from a baby，欺负小孩，从小孩手里拿糖，在想象当中是很容易的。但是，实际情况恐怕并不见得如此。发明这个成语的人也许从来也没有设法把婴儿的小拳头扒开，然后把那小手里的糖拿来。任何做过父母的人都会告诉你孩子一般都会紧握着手里的糖不放，要是你硬是要拿，他就会大声哭叫。可是，尽管如此，to take candy from a baby已经成为美国人经常用来形容办事容易的词汇了。

Life is about choices

957164655@qq.com(ゞＬǐn丶) — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 12:50:21 GMT

Michael is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I'd be twins!" He was a natural motivator.
If an employee was having a bad day, Michael was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation. Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Michael and asked him, "I don' t get it. You can' t be positive all the time. How do you do it?"
Michael replied, each morning I wake up and say to myself 'Mike, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.' I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life."
"Yeah, right. It isn't that easy." I protested.
"Yes it is, " Michael said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line is: It's your choice how you live life. " I reflected on what Michael said.
Soon thereafter, I left the big enterprise that I had worked in for years to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often though about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it. Several years later, I heard Michael was involved in a serious accident, falling off 60 feet from a communications tower.
After l8 hours of surgery, and weeks of intensive care, Michael was released from the hospital with rods placed in his back. I saw Michael about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?" I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the accident took place.
"The first thing that went through my mind was the well being of my soon-to-born daughter," Michael replied. "Then, as I lay on the ground, remembered I had two choices: I could choose to live or I could choose to die. I chose to live." "Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked. Michael continued, "... the paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the operation room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, l read 'He's a dead man.' I knew I needed to take action." "What did you do?" I asked. "Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me" said Michael. "She asked me if I was allergic to anything. 'Yes,' I said. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled", 'Gravity'" Over their laughter, I told them, 'I'm choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead'."
Michael lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude.
I learned from him that every day we have a choice to live fully. Attitude is everything.

"坚持你的梦想"

957164655@qq.com(ゞＬǐn丶) — Tue, 10 Feb 2009 14:37:22 GMT

I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Sedro. He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money for youth at risk programs.

The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, "I want to tell you why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from farm and ranch-to-ranch, training horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was asked to write a paper about what he wanted to be and do when he grew up.

"That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot house that would sit on the 200-acre dream ranch.
"He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, 'See me after class.'

Autumn

957164655@qq.com(ゞＬǐn丶) — Wed, 26 Nov 2008 12:29:36 GMT

Autumn is the season of harvest, harvest success, to capture the feelings, their own in a very subtle way to grow up a lot; Autumn is the reincarnation of the mark, take a look at this day last year, photos of himself now have not identified a; in the fall of the total Is that it has given a lot of people, everyone's eyes are full of expectations, full of life, cognitive, or even the feeling of life. Do you believe in miracles? Unpredictable things, it is difficult to retain the moment, you have to learn to face their own; fate you believe it? Every moment of your face and you will be coming, the opportunity is more important than looking for opportunities. In your surroundings, perhaps not all, what is important is the attitude of your life, believe it, as a new Asian love life is a basic principle. Cherish those around us, to show your confidence and courage in the most appropriate time, you see all the passion of life, full of sparks like a miracle.

In a harvest season, you may see pressure may also be the beginning of a loss. Take a look at the rise of the sky, or that mysterious blue; look back in the fall, he is still beautiful. To relax themselves, a rare autumn, the air is filled with free and easy taste, touch everything infected with the fall of the Ling-yin, to hear all the notes seemed to have become the fall of the melody, you can not avoid it has to Face; season in the non-stop change, perhaps Wushirenfei, perhaps deserted, but there is always a good memory, one day you have a chance to look at the circumstances of their writing, an instant like, and that scenes footage Has become a patchwork of your life, part of the flash of your achievements, the dark part of you grow up precious memories of the whole process is a spirit of the accumulation of wealth, life, it is not an accumulation of such wealth The process of it?
Autumn Days
　　Came along the fall, it’s a sense of chill, abandoned leaves,
　　that glory of gold turned pale;
　　Fall’s breeze, it’s a sense of direction, helpless leaves,
　　that splendor of green faded away.
　　
Came along the fall, hint of forever wait,
　　that empty soul trembled in a poor breakable shell;
　　Fall’s breeze, sign of heavenly pray,
　　that desperation dripped out of a solitary life.
　　
Heartful mercy, faithful bless, vanished all;
　　Glorious harvest, sole destiny,autumn days
　　
-- with a sincere respect to this amazing season